Sounds just like a self-help book, no? Well, I am here to help YOU!
So, you wish to have a threeway? Who does not? Threesomes are awesome. No question. BUT, I highly recommend reading through this if you are thinking about one, or if you are attempting to get the concept to go smoothly with a significant other.
I have talked about them before, but not MFF specifically. For anyone new to this lingo, MFF stands for male, female, female. Yep. The ultimate threeway, right? Some people find the concept intimidating. Others jump head first. I say, if you have a secure relationship, go for it. It can be a fantasy come true. Now, there are a few things you should keep in mind. As a woman, I can tell you first hand some of the thoughts that go through our heads, so the biggest, and most important thing you can do is reassure your girl. Make it about her, even though really, it is about both of you getting something out of the experience. But what I mean about that, is you have to emphasize how you feel about her. That the girl is the HOTTEST thing out there. That the girl is, in fact, your fantasy. Some people will say, artfully then, why do you need a threeway. Well, obviously, you do not need it. But you wish it. I mean, for some guys, it is to have sex with a person different, but done in a consensual way. Just do not ever say that to her. For some, it is because it is banging hot to watch two women together. For others, it is the concept of getting not one, but two pussies, two mouths, etc. Anyhow, whatever your reasoning, in order for it to go smoothly, you NEED to make YOUR girl feel just like SHE is in charge. Have her help pick a candidate on a swingers site. Maybe you go out to a bar and check out what is there. This girls input requires to be important. And do not worry, we are WAY fussier than you guys when it comes to women!
So, again, no matter how turned on you has from the other girl in the threeway, forever tell your woman that the girl is hotter. I mean it! If you keep blathering on and on about the other person in the experience, the girl is not likely going to do it again. Let her initiate a little, you know? Like, it is okay if the girl requests what it was just like to tell her, so tight, or that kind of thing. But you do not wish to overdo it, and say God, the girl was the most amazing piece of ass I have ever had, or man, I have not once had head just like that before. Save that for your guy friends. Sure, if it turns her on to talk about it, feel free to elaborate a little, but forever bring it back to, but baby, it feels SO much better banging you, or something along those lines. Even if it is no completely true. A little white lie is completely acceptable here.
So, back to the actual threeway. Lots of guys say, it is so intimidating. What is MY part? Well, quite simply, you will be going with the flow here. If the girls are caught up in the moment, maybe you just sit back and enjoy. It is not offensive to take it out and do what comes naturally. I mean, it IS lovely hot to watch. Maybe you ask if they are okay with photos, or a little video being taken. Most of us honestly do not care when in the heat of the moment. Maybe you go and touch your girl. Touch the other girl. You will get comfortable lovely quickly. Trust us. I mean, usually, there is some making out and stuff before any of the real action happens anyhow, so you will already be more comfortable. Plus, once a while, when you are dealing with bisexual women, there is one thing that WE do not have, but we need. You know it. And only you can fill that spot. My point is, things happen more naturally than you would expect. And it is mind gobbling when it does. Here are SO many options when it comes to three. So rather than be intimidated, this is your time to be creative.
I have heard guys say, I could not once please two women at once. Really? Sure you can! You have a mouth, you have fingers. Problem solved. Plus, there IS another woman in the room that will be MORE than happy to take on another role. Maybe you take your girl in doggie on the bed, you standing behind, and the other woman laying underneath, licking any single thing that drags over her face, as perhaps pleasuring herself (this is a fave of mine, personally). Maybe the other woman in atop of you, and your girl is making out with her, or you, or both of you. The possibilities are endless. And I could get honestly graphic, but we will save that for our chats!
Anyhow, I hope you enjoyed this little tidbit and I hope it is useful for at least a few of you.
I know I have been SUPER hard to get on cam the last bit, but it& will only be for a few more weeks. I thank all for forever being so patient with us. I can still be caught here and there for short spurts, but appointments are the only way to avoid disappointment when I am online until the fall!
Just a quick note that I have an Mchat this Sunday at 4pm ET! Remember, it is FREE for Cam With This girls members, and only $5.00 for non-members! What better way to spend a Sunday than naked, with me!
Have an amazing weekend, guys and dolls!
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